Why Men Don't Have Advice Column

To Adrian 's Advice Column

Dear Adrian,

I hope you can help me here. The other day, I set off for work leaving my husband in the house watching the TV as usual. I hadn't driven more than a mile down the road when the engine conked out and the car shuddered to a halt. I walked back home to get my husband's help. When I got home I couldn't believe my eyes. He was in the bedroom with the neighbour's daughter. I am 32, my husband is 34, and the neighbour's daughter is 22. We have been married for 10 years.

When I confronted him, he broke down and admitted they had been having an affair for 6 months. I told him to stop or I would leave him. He was let go from his job six months ago and he says he has been feeling increasingly depressed & worthless. I love him very much, but ever since I gave him the ultimatum he has become increasingly distant. He won't go to counseling and I'm afraid I can't get through to him anymore. Can you please help?

Sincerely

Heather
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Dear Heather

A car stalling after being driven a short distance can be caused by a variety of faults with the engine. Start by checking that there is no debris in the fuel line. If it is clear, check the vacuum pipes and hoses on the intake manifold and also check all grounding wires. If none of these approaches solve the problem, it could be that the fuel pump itself is faulty, causing low delivery pressure to the injectors.
I hope this helps,

Adrian

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I supposed that is the reason why man do not have any advice column of relationship. Ask men about anything other than relationship, how to fix a car and make your old beatles runs like a Subaru WRX, we will give you all kinds of tips on how to prep up your car and install all the latest gadgets that will make heads turn. Ask us about computer repair or the best way to fix your broken pipes. Ask us how to mend your roof or the best method to get your car shines and we will be able to give you thousands and one tips to get around it. You can ask us anything on how to fix things but relationship is never one of them.

The whimsical premise of Men Are From Mars is that many years ago, all men lived on Mars, and all women lived on Venus. Once they got together, they respected and enjoyed their differences--until one day when everybody woke up completely forgetting that they had once come from different planets. And ever since, men mistakenly expect women to think and communicate and react the way men do, and women expect men to think and communicate and react the way women do. These unrealistic expectations cause frustration. But when we understand the God-given differences between male and female, we have more realistic expectations of the other sex, and our frustration level drops. I never truly understand how the saying comes about but I am able to truly appreciate the vast difference that both the sexes have in terms of thinking.

I remembered having a discussion with a lady colleague of mine about a work related problem, for me I am more keen in getting the problem fix and move on, but for her, she would is more concern about how the problem affects morale and why it happen in the first place. I supposed it is this difference that makes our life more challenging and interesting.